My dating app inboxes are full of dozens of conversations just like this: “Hey,” a match messages me. “Hi,” I respond. “How are you?” they say. For example, 60% of female users ages 18 to 34 say someone on a dating site or app continued to contact them after they said they were not. “Because a few of them will say to me, 'Uhhh, we met on Tinder'—like, 'Where else do you think we would have met?'” Plus, he adds, it's never.