 06-03-2009, 02:53 PM | | | Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE' 2,043 posts, read 4,626,160 times |
| ..we all know or have heard about this phenomenon when it comes to men, but how common do you think it is when it comes to women? Do you know any women on the 'down low', who date men, or who are married or are in long-term relationships with men, but are hitting up women on the side, without their male partner's knowledge? 
Do you think, once found out, that a man's reaction would be the same as a female's since most females tend to completely LOSE IT when they find out their man has been sleeping with another man? |
06-03-2009, 03:07 PM | | | Location: I never said I was perfect so no refunds here sorry! 6,466 posts, read 6,452,573 times |
| Originally Posted by Little Mizz Pittsburgh ..we all know or have heard about this phenomenon when it comes to men, but how common do you think it is when it comes to women? Do you know any women on the 'down low', who date men, or who are married or are in long-term relationships with men, but are hitting up women on the side, without their male partner's knowledge?
Do you think, once found out, that a man's reaction would be the same as a female's since most females tend to completely LOSE IT when they find out their man has been sleeping with another man? |
 and yes I can see why a woman would completely lose it to fnd something like that out....ah but to answer your question, no I don't believe there reaction would match that of a lady with the tables turned........ |
06-03-2009, 03:59 PM | | | Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE' 2,043 posts, read 4,626,160 times |
| Um, no. Actually the 'down low' phenomenon is nothing new. Its been going on for ages. Its just been brought to the forefront in recent years, especially with the book that was written by J. L. King called "On the Down Low" and the rise of H.I.V. cases particularly amongst African-American females. The #1 reason for the rise in H.I.V. cases amongst African-American females is because their men are sleeping with other men without their knowledge.
Anyway, a friend of mine was telling me last week, how a male associate of hers, who works for the city (he's a garbage collector), made a quick stop past his house, after he was finished with his route, only to find his WIFE munching on the next door neighbor in the middle of the living room floor. I asked her what his reaction was and she told me he was pretty darn upset about it, but didn't go into detail on how he reacted right then and there. |
06-03-2009, 04:24 PM | | | Location: New Milford, NJ 1,452 posts, read 2,934,546 times |
| Ummm....ok, I know it's a double standard here but I'm going to make following statement: I think that the MAJORITY of women would be very upset if they found out their man was having sex with another man. Sorry, but I just think men who are attracted to other men are homosexuals deep down who don't want to completely come out of the closet and might be in some sort of denial. A woman with another woman, however, again, sorry but I think this is a different thing. Maybe because to me the difference is in how the sex occurs...you're not actually penetrating another person's bodily cavities with a sexual organ when it's female on female (and I'm talking SEXUAL organ, not fisting and using fake penises and the like). To me it just seems so much more...idk...invasive and easier to get STD's w/man on man and, well, since I can't think of a better adjective...gayer (and this is coming from a woman who has never been with another woman but oh would I love to try it out and I'm not gay in the least...)
That being said, if you're in a relationship with a man and he doesn't know about it, I could see him being upset, as opposed to something you discuss w/him openly (look honey, I would like to be with another woman....not necessarily in your presence, just something I would like to do, do you mind? lol).
Also think it depends on whether or not the relationship w/the other woman is basically just sexual or whether you're carrying on an affair as you would with a man..sneaking around and such. Otherwise, I think if he knows about it and it's for harmless fun, I believe there are men who would be fairly accepting of it if not begging to watch/participate/film it or at least get one still pic to stare at and maybe masturbate to!! lol... |
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