The best men dating books

I started my book list last week with the best books on motivation for men. So this week its the best men's dating books. So the main focus of this article will be the top 10 dating books for men.

Dating advice for men is a topic that is getting more attention these days. However it's still something that the mainstream don't really talk about.

It's something that is frowned upon by modern society.Many think it's men tricking women in some way.Yes, its an absurd way of looking at it but this is the world we live in today.

I guess it all started with the old school dating books that were underground in the beginning and then gradually started to get more attention.

And then a lot of women and feminists started losing their minds over it. Its kind of ironic that it has gotten so much criticism because women have had talk shows, magazines and other forms of dating advice for a long time.

But when a group of men figured out that they too can team up and figure out how dating can be improved all of a sudden it became a problem for the feminists and their friends.

So whatever the criticism of these so-called “Pickup Artists ” are they did start a movement that evolved over the years.

Many different approaches to meeting and dating women evolved and men gravitated to whatever group they felt comfortable with.

I started reading some of these books about 10 years ago and it helped me with improving my dating life. But the most important part of these dating advice books was the fact that they send me on the road towards personal development. That is what a lot of these books and gurus indirectly point towards.

Many of them have one big underlying premise. Improve yourself and you will find it easier to meet and date women.

One more thing!

I want to preface this list with the following statement:

I don't fully agree with the philosophies of all these books.

Some I agree with more than others. But I learned from all them.

That is my advice to you.

Take the value you can get from them and let the rest go.

Being a “pickup artist” is mostly a waste of time but being naturally good with women is something you can develop by learning from a wide variety of books like the ones listed below and books fromrelated subjects.

Then you will become a more knowledgeable and more complete human. And by doing that you will not only attract women but all kinds of different opportunities into your life.

So that being said here is my list of best dating books for men. 

The top 10 dating books for men:

Double Your Dating
By David DeAngelo

Double your dating was the first dating book I ever read and gave me a totally different perspective on meeting and dating women.

At the time I was just winging it with dating and had no real plan of how to approach it.

Although I had some success with dating this book transformed my dating success and I was able to meet an date a lot more women with the information in this book.

The big take away for this book is this. The attraction is not a choice.

Double Your Dating

The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists
By Neil Strauss

The Game is the story of Neil Strauss and how he went from average frustrated chump to the best pick up artist in the world.

Strauss tells the story of how he transformed himself into “Style” his new game identity.In the book all of the pickup artists had names they would use in the field and Strauss was known as Style.

Strauss was mentored by Mystery who at the time was the best in the business. And the book goes into how Style and Mystery dominated the dating scene in Los Angeles.

Whatever you think about the characters in the book you have to admire Strauss for taking himself out of his comfort zone and transforming himself in the best pick up artist in the world.

The whole story is fascinating, hilarious and crazy at times.Even if you are not interested in improving your dating skills this book is so well written that you will find yourself laughing and shaking your head many times through this book.

The Game

The Mystery Method :How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed

By Mystery

The Mystery Method was written by Mystery the mentor of Neil Stauss which I mentioned previously. This book is the blueprint that Mystery created to seduce beautiful women. The book uses the perspective of evolution and logic to seduce women.

Although I did not agree with everything in this book I did learn a lot from it and the book at the time was unique and original. In many ways, this book was responsible for the whole evolution of the so-called “pickup artist” scene of the early 2000s.

Mystery Method

MetaWhore
By Eric Von Sydow

Metawhore is the story of one of the original dating mindset coaches and hypnotists Eric Von Sydow, AKA Hypnotica. Eric Von Sydow known as Rasputin in the book The Game was the mindset coach for many of the top dating guys like Neil Strauss and David DeAngelo.

Metawhore takes you into the world of nonconformity where Eric Von Sydow explores reality, sexuality, dating and the mind. It's a unique story by a unique individual that will make you look at your own life in a critical way.

Good book for anyone wants to see a totally different perspective on life and personal development.

MetaWhore

Models: Attract Women Through Honesty
By Mark Manson

Models is a dating advice book written by Mark Manson. The book approached dating form a different perspective than the majority of dating coaches at the time. His approach was using honesty to reach your objective.

The author argues that attraction is more an emotional process than a logical one. A good book and at the time I read it it was something different with a totally different way of looking at it.

Some writers thought the original dating books where manipulating women so he developed a different approach to success with dating.

Models

The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire
By David Deida

The Way Of The Superior Man by David Deida is not really a dating guide but more a Spiritual Guide for Men.

It's is a philosophical look at what it means to be a man. This book brings together western and eastern philosophy on what it means to be a masculine man and how to approach women, sex and relationships.

This is a great book with a unique perspective on what it means to be a man.

Way Of The Superior Man

The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature
By Matt Ridley

I believe that it's always good to get a totally different perspective on reality and this book is a perfect example of that. This book is written out of a scientific perspective and focuses on sexuality.

It takes a look at human sexuality through the lens of genetics, primatology, ecology, comparative zoology, neurobiology, linguistics, and evolutionary psychology.

It's not a traditional dating book but will give you unique insights into why humans do the things they do.

The Red Queen

Art of Seduction: An Indispensible Primer on the Ultimate Form of Power
By Robert Greene

From Robert Greene the author of the 48 Laws of Power comes another great book and this time on the topic of seduction.

The book is a comprehensive guide to getting what you want when it comes to seduction.

Greene goes back in history to study some of the greatest minds of history and brings back the lessons of the masters of seduction.

This book will give you unique insights into some of the greatest seducers in history.

Art of Seduction

What Every BODY Is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Guide to Speed-Reading People
By Joe Navarro

This book is on the topic of body language written by a former FBI agent. Most of human communication happens through body language.

The author teaches and explains how to “speed-read” people and how to use your own body language to influence they people around you.

One of the interesting things in this book is that the author points out that the best place to get an idea for someone's true feelings is not the face but rather other parts of the body.

What Every BODY Is Saying

By Rollo Tomassi

This will probably be the most important book you will read on dating, relationships and understanding women. In fact, this should be the first book you read before you start gaming women. This book will shock you out of your current reality and show you the truth that you will probably try to resist. But then you will see the world as it really is. Great Book!

Rational Male

Conclusion

So this was my best books for men – on dating. Hope you enjoy the books and remember whatever book you read take action on the information or you are wasting your time.

Until next time…