Girl 18 yers old dating - for
The Oarsman
Ok, i’ve read some of the comments and, it’s ok to date when you like 14 yrs old when you’re like, 13 or something.
But if you are 25+ and like minors (Below 18/17. idk which.) What the heck do you see in a not fully developed child? There is definitely something wrong there. See, it is called pedophilia. It means liking or having attractions towards a child romantically. Or sees kids as a romantic interest.
It is definitely wrong. People keep on encouraging others and say “Oh~ age is just a number. It doesn’t matter how old they are~” like wtf guys. It DOES matters.
If your reason is because you feel like you are mature enough to date someone so old, and like, feel like you are so in compatibility with someone, that’s just crap. You are only like in teen years, you haven’t fully develop in mind nor body. You probably haven’t have experience with a lot of people in life, which is why there is a big possibility that you feel that way because of your inexperience and when you experienced something new towards a person, you feel like they are so special. When in reality it is some common traits that a lot of people have. But you just haven’t have that knowledge towards people yet.
Honestly, I have a friend who is 16 years old. She has this big crush on someone who is 11 years older than her. When I asked her if she’s okay with the idea of dating someone that old (especially when she is still considered as a minor.) she answered that “Age is just a number.” That reaction shocked me. That cliche kind of answer feels like a petty excuse to love someone younger or waaay older than you. Just because you think it’s ok, doesn’t mean it is.
At the very least, you should wait until you’re like 18 years old. The age where you are fine with making your own decision and think more rationally than before. But for your information, the brain will fully develop when you are at the age of 25. but whatever thats so random.
This stuff is probably harsh for the lot of you, but that’s only because I didn’t try to be flowery with my words.
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