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05-14-2017, 06:01 PM

So I'm on Tinder and Bumble and average about 2-3 dates a week, sometimes mores, sometimes less. I'm in my early 30s. I am not looking for anything serious. I do not advertise that but if a guy is just sex material I will go for it. I am sort of go with the flow.
I still can't wrap my head around with how many guys are just playing swiping game or are flaky. Now there are flakes on Tinder. I mean it probably goes without saying. Lots of guys don't even want to meet up. They just look for some validation.
Anyway, I got matched with a guy and he was whining about flaky girls. So he pursues me and sets up a date. A day before date said he has an emergency and has to fly to another part of the state. I'm like really but I give him the benefit of the doubt. I still write him off and go on 2 other dates in the past week. He contacts me 5 days ago and says he is back and wants to go out. gets everything set up. But on a day of the date, he becomes a ghost. I text earlier in the day to check the time and nothing.
Why would grown people do it? Would you do that? I personally have the decency to say 'sorry have to cancel'. And it often comes from people who sound and look like they got their act together. Maybe this guy is married or he met somebody he liked better. I met other too. Why is it so hard to say I am no longer interested. Do men even see their tinder matches as real humans?

05-14-2017, 06:08 PM

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05-14-2017, 06:16 PM

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It also happens with people you meet in bars.

It doesn't seem to matter where people meet each other. These things can happen, flaking out and such.

I was on match fifteen years ago, I learned to read someone's profile carefully first, and if someone flaked or was difficult to meet with in person, I'd block and move on to the next.

05-14-2017, 06:44 PM

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That's interesting. I've been using tinder for almost a year now and I have yet to have a match flake on me.
The guys I match with are usually super eager to meet up in person and I'm the one who's kinda hesitant at first.
I do have this rule that I need to talk to a guy online for at least a couple weeks before I go on a date with him. Maybe that's why? If you make them wait a bit they're less likely to flake when you actually do agree to go out with them?

05-14-2017, 07:37 PM

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Get off these online dating sites and meet women in real life.

05-14-2017, 07:44 PM

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Some women go on 3 dates a week and just use Tinder for free meals. Guys know this and if a woman gives off this vibe, we just don't care. We might "pay for play" if we feel like it but if something comes up, something comes up.

Guys don't flake on quality women.

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